I have been thinking a lot lately about dog training terminology and the words we use to describe our dogs. Every day I work with several clients to help them fix their dog training problems and also speak with a handful of potential clients. One thing I often hear is, “My dog is very disobedient,” or, “My dog is naughty,” or “My dog doesn’t listen to me.”
I often respond by saying, “Okay, no problem. We’ll fix that.” Lately, though, I’ve been thinking about these characterizations and whether or not they are accurate. After a lot of thinking I have come to the conclusion that they aren’t.
Think about it, we live in a world of opposites. We only know what happiness is because we have experienced sadness. We only know pain because we also know wellness. You can only know what cold is if you have experienced hot. Each opposite is a reference point for the other feeling, sensation, state of being, etc.
What that means is that a dog can only willingly be disobedient if he knows what obedience is. He can’t break a rule if he doesn’t understand a rule. She can’t be naughty if she hasn’t been trained.
So many owners have a pretty clear picture in their mind of how they want their dog to behave. Anything that falls outside of those parameters is considered disobedient. It is my contention that this is erroneous most of the time. Dogs aren’t spiteful, malicious, or vengeful. If they really know something is wrong, they don’t do it. Period. If they really know something is appropriate, they do it. End of story.
I get lots of arguments on this. People will constantly tell me that their dog is disobedient because he knows that he did something wrong. What I try to educate my clients about is that they need to rethink their lines of communication. The owner is convinced that he has made it clear to the dog what is appropriate, yet the dog is still acting out. Nine times out of ten the owner hasn’t made it clear, it’s a case of miscommunication. The owner then misreads body signals such as a seemingly penitent and guilty looking dog and takes that to mean that the dog is being willfully rebellious. Not so. The dog is simply confused and wishes to understand why his owner is angry with him.
If you have a disobedient or naughty dog rethink things. Chances are you haven’t communicated what it is you want.
WARNING: This post is more of a rant than an educational dog training piece. Read at your own risk!
In order to get topics for these blog posts I often visit dog training message boards and forums looking for ideas. I like to see some of the problems that are common amongst pet dogs and write about them in this blog.
There is a technique that I see from time to time recommended by dog owners to other dog owners. I think you know what method I’m talking about (I’m assuming you read the title to this post). Someone goes on a message board asking for advice on how to house train their dog. It is inevitable that I see someone else respond by saying, “Rub your dog’s nose in the accident while telling him ‘no’ in a firm voice. Then put the dog in his crate or outside.”
I honestly can’t believe that in the year 2008 that this archaic method is still followed and believed to work. As a professional dog trainer that has assisted numerous clients in house training numerous dogs let me assure you, THIS METHOD DOES NOT WORK!!!
Many people claim that dog’s can’t remember something after it happens. That isn’t true. Dogs do have memory. What they aren’t capable of, however, is attaching negative or positive reinforcement to a behavior after the fact. What that means is that if you catch your dog more than a few seconds after a house training accident or any other misbehavior there is nothing you can do. Don’t even try. It isn’t that your dog is stupid, it’s just that the canine mind is programmed differently than a human mind. Different doesn’t mean better or worse, just different.
If you are going to train your dog it is imperative that you know how he understands associations. So please, understand this one. If you don’t catch your dog in the act of a misbehavior don’t do anything! Just learn your lesson and supervise your dog better.